If their was more people in their, trust me he would be walking home. He was just trying to cheer me up from a bad day at work. And I should have said he didn't like scream or anything, just got jokingly whiny and said "but but but I want it!" I have a pretty good sense of humor. Made me laugh .... After
My hubby would never do that in the store. Most times I dont go shopping with him. WHen we go he is on a mission, he goes to the sections that he needs to and if he forgets something in a section he doesnt go back he waits til next week.
Since I know this is how he is, I dont go with him very often. lol
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I give up. I think everyone's got their opinion made up of me. I didn't mean to start anything off of this except maybe make someone laugh
Oh well.
Are you seriously pulling the "disregard, disregard, I'm just going to DD" stunt again? Because it's getting old.
You're not going to get along with everyone, but own what you post.
I've tried everything I can. This was only meant to put a small smile on someone's face but apparently that's impossible with some women. I realize not everyone is going to like you but seriously you see my name and know you don't like me then why not just keep scrolling ? I wish I could just not let it get to me but it's everything I post it seems I get snarky comments. I just don't get it. I don't mean any harm to anyone ever
Maybe because what you posted was ridiculous. I didn't find it funny in the slightest and I would have been horrified if my dh ever acted that way in public.
I would have thought the same thing no matter who posted it.
Her hubby threw a "mantrum" in the grocery store and after bitching about it for a paragraph she said it was funny. This whole post and then DD and then apologize for 6 pages is quite tiresome.
I've tried everything I can. This was only meant to put a small smile on someone's face but apparently that's impossible with some women. I realize not everyone is going to like you but seriously you see my name and know you don't like me then why not just keep scrolling ? I wish I could just not let it get to me but it's everything I post it seems I get snarky comments. I just don't get it. I don't mean any harm to anyone ever
I think you're trying too hard. Don't try so hard. Feel free to post what you want, but own up to it. Don't DD. The way I'd try to look at it, if I were you, is to look through how others responded, and see if maybe it changes the way you look at it or not. If not, great, then you're obviously fine with the relationship you have chosen. If not, perhaps you can gain some clarity.
I give up. I think everyone's got their opinion made up of me. I didn't mean to start anything off of this except maybe make someone laugh
Oh well.
Not at all. I'm not on here enough to really care or know all the history, but what you posted about your df was just awkward and totally inappropriate for a soon to be father, or any adult IMO. On top of his strange behavior (IMO) you actually found it amusing (in some way) and thought that a bunch of grown women would feel the same. Just own it. Your post wasn't as amusing as you thought it would be.
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Honestly, @ThatKelsgirl I find you highly entertaining. I wish you hadn't just deleted your post.
I think the problem that most of us are having in relating to this topic is that you don't seem to actually be upset by DFs behavior. When someone on here posts something about her BSC MIL we can commiserate with that, but if that poster said 'eh she was just joking all is well' it comes off as really bizarre and we're left wondering why bother posting it.
I'm not saying this from a mean/hateful/harassing place, I'm really trying to give you some advice/perspective based on what I've seen you write (and maybe you write this way to cover up insecurities, or to be funny, or things are really an exaggeration - so this is based on taking everything at face value) - I think that a lot of what happens to you just happens as you're floating through life because you don't seem to try & stop it - you aren't in control and you seem just fine with it. You're bringing a child into this world soon, you need to get more control over your life and your actions and make more adult-like decisions - and this applies to DF, too.
Please don't write back and say you're sorry, it is not necessary. Please don't think I'm trying to gang up on you. Truly, that is not my intention, nor am I trying to be snarky (though I was trying to funny in my initial post to this thread).
I honestly agree with your comment and would like to say thank you
Maybe because what you posted was ridiculous. I didn't find it funny in the slightest and I would have been horrified if my dh ever acted that way in public.
I would have thought the same thing no matter who posted it.
To @Thatkelsgirl its "flag worthy" because she posts stuff to start drama and controversy then deletes the post and apologizes a million times so people who aren't used to her stunts think she's the victim when really she's just starting BS and the rest of us are sick of her shit and tired of biting our tongue.
Also, @Thatkelsgirl , I thought you were gonna stop posting new posts 10 times a day starting drama? I've seen that sentence a LOT, but have yet to see it.
Actions speak louder than words, dear.
And I don't care if I sound snarky, you're not the victim. You just feed on drama and bs. Which is why you start it.
@thatkelsgirl please remove the flag on @laurelyn2012's post. There was nothing flag-worthy in what she said, and inappropriate flagging makes for more work for our fabulous mods @lilnunz1 and @brighteyes. And is against the TOS, which supposedly you have read.
Lol! Thanks! My give a damn is busted. I'm tired of stupid shit. I'd rather see 50 name posts than one of this girls. The name posts are repetitive but at least they are not drama.
I know what JNerd meant lol I'm not being snarky to JNerd shes an awesome person to bump with and gives great advice. I was saying OP is flagging people so she'll look like a victim and make us all look like bullies. Same reason she deletes posts and apologizes 20 times in the comments so she looks like an innocent lil special snowflake.
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I know what JNerd meant lol I'm not being snarky to JNerd shes an awesome person to bump with and gives great advice. I was saying OP is flagging people so she'll look like a victim and make us all look like bullies. Same reason she deletes posts and apologizes 20 times in the comments so she looks like an innocent lil special snowflake.
Thanks lady!
Also - totally agree with your assessment of Kels and the situation.
“I wish we could all get along like we used to in middle school. I wish I could bake a cake filled with rainbows and smiles and everyone would eat and be happy.”
-Mean Girls
I cant gif on my lame phone, but for some reason I always think of Mean Girls when this shit goes down. And it makes me giggle.
Im driving the bus to hell...who's with me.
Mean Girls is always one of my first thoughts.
And I'll have a window seat on that bus please!
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I have a pretty good sense of humor. Made me laugh
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Oh well.
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Lol 3 posts I think ??
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I think you're trying too hard. Don't try so hard. Feel free to post what you want, but own up to it. Don't DD. The way I'd try to look at it, if I were you, is to look through how others responded, and see if maybe it changes the way you look at it or not. If not, great, then you're obviously fine with the relationship you have chosen. If not, perhaps you can gain some clarity.
To @Thatkelsgirl its "flag worthy" because she posts stuff to start drama and controversy then deletes the post and apologizes a million times so people who aren't used to her stunts think she's the victim when really she's just starting BS and the rest of us are sick of her shit and tired of biting our tongue.
Also, @Thatkelsgirl , I thought you were gonna stop posting new posts 10 times a day starting drama? I've seen that sentence a LOT, but have yet to see it.
Actions speak louder than words, dear.
And I don't care if I sound snarky, you're not the victim. You just feed on drama and bs. Which is why you start it.
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Lol! Thanks!
My give a damn is busted. I'm tired of stupid shit. I'd rather see 50 name posts than one of this girls. The name posts are repetitive but at least they are not drama.
I know what JNerd meant lol I'm not being snarky to JNerd shes an awesome person to bump with and gives great advice. I was saying OP is flagging people so she'll look like a victim and make us all look like bullies. Same reason she deletes posts and apologizes 20 times in the comments so she looks like an innocent lil special snowflake.
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